Yay Women! 6 Insights I Gained From a Women’s Retreat

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I just spent five days at a Coaching Retreat with an intimate group of five extraordinary women. Together, we made six, and together, we made magic.

Left to my default, I can be a lone wolf. I’ll take the few over the many, quiet over noise,...

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The Identity Crisis You Didn’t Know You Had

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When I think about identity, I think about how we diagnose having multiple personalities as a disorder. Yet, most of us live lives with multiple personalities and don’t seem to think it’s a problem!

We are different people depending on our r...

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Versace Should Have Left Sooner

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Many of you know that in 1982, my partners and I opened the first Versace boutique in the United States.

Considering the iconic brand it became in the following decades, it wasn't as daunting as you might think. Gianni Versace was still...

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If You Worship Perfectionism, This Might Hurt…

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The impact of Perfectionism is like the force of Gravity.

Most (I’m hoping all) of us are aware of it, and ignorance doesn’t shield us from its effects. 

In other words, not understanding gravity will not prevent us from falling, and i...

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"Mom, All You Had to do Was Ask for What You Want"

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Years ago, my son and I were traveling by plane.

We were sitting in coach.

He is a big guy, and I’m not such a big woman (in size).

We sat quietly and peacefully beside each other for 2 hours until I spoke. 

Me: “Can I ask you a question?...

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Why "Go Big or Go Home" is the Worst Advice Ever?

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After a concert, a fan once approached the great violinist Isaac Stern and said, “Mr. Stern, I would do anything to play like you.”

“Really?” answered the virtuoso. “Would you practice 10 hours a day for 20 years? Because that’s what I did.”...

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Willpower Won't Save You. Here's What Will.

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How long have you believed that if you just had more willpower, you could finally make that habit change you’ve tried and failed at so many times?

If you ask people why they want to work with a Professional Coach, one of the top three reason...

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The "Always A Good Idea!" List

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People like us, growth-minded optimizers that is, LOVE lists!

Data supports our intuition that lists work. People who create lists become more conscientious over time and procrastinate less, which brings to mind Annie Dillard’s wise words, “...

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Everytime You Say This, You're Hurting Yourself

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What if you had indisputable evidence that your words could unquestionably shape your life?

What if, like magic, everything you uttered created your reality, both for the better and the worse?

I’m not talking about mantras and spells.

I’m ...

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To the Doctors Who Couldn’t “Fix” Me, Thank You!

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Pain made itself at home in my body sometime in my forties.

Those who are quick to blame my trail and ultra running practice as “too much” and, therefore, the cause of my pain should note that my pain began years before I even knew there was...

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I Wish I Had Let Myself Be Happier

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Recently, I wrote a piece on regrets—specifically, how to not create them.

I shared Bronnie Ware’s book, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, a worthy read which, contrary to our perception of the subject, is not morbid but inspiring.

After I...

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Hey, Ex-boyfriend. Love You!

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“Love you” are two words we either say too often or not enough.

Years ago, an ex-boyfriend noticed I don’t end my conversations with loved ones with “love you” as he did. Of course, he knew how much I loved my kids, and on my part, I just th...

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The Power of Saying “No” to Yourself

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Freedom has been my most significant life value even before I had the words to define it. My earliest and fondest memories are of roaming in our magical garden in Iran and feeling free to do and be whatever I wanted. That was my 5-year-old mi...

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It’s That Time of the Year! 51 Resolutions That Mean Business

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It’s that time of the year; whether consciously or not, we are all taking stock of the year that passed and thinking about the one ahead.

You may or may not decide to set goals for the new year, but if you do, consider making them goals that...

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The 2 Windows of Parenting: Authority Vs. Influence

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Coaching young adults has a tricky aspect to it.

Even though I’m coaching young adults, their parents also need to change their beliefs and behaviors if they want their children to succeed.

Recently, a friend with children close to age to m...

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The 2 Sides of Scarcity. Use it or Lose it?

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Lately, I’ve been thinking about scarcity and how it shows up in our lives.

I was prompted when the host on this podcast asked me why many high-level female leaders are reluctant to help other women rise the corporate ladder. My response was...

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The Unexpected Superpowers of Practicing Gratitude

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Recently, someone close to me said this in a moment of quiet reflection:

“Sometimes you just gotta slow down to count your blessings.”

And I thought to myself, “He’s got it all wrong!”

The truth is that we ought to constantly be in the flo...

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The 3 Things to Consider Before Making a Decision

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“If only I had clarity, I know I have what it takes to accomplish any goal!”

“If only I had the courage to pursue my dreams… but, alas, I’m just not brave!”

“If I just had the confidence to try… write… build… say… (choose your verb), I know...

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Regret is the WORST! Stop Creating It.

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When someone asks me what I do, I tell them I help people create regret-free lives. This wasn’t the goal I set out with when I started coaching, but over time, I’ve learned that regret is a deep-seated fear for many, particularly those enteri...

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The Job of Your “Job” is Not to Excite You!

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People who come to coaching often fall into two categories: 

  • Those who don’t know what their next (or first) career move should be and
  • Those with a job and career who want to switch to something else.

Coaching the first group involves ...

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Suck it Up, Buttercup!

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I know it’s meant as a compliment, but it irks me when someone says, “You’re lucky to have a high pain tolerance.”

They usually follow it up with a story about their own natural, even genetic, low pain tolerance.

I’ve spent decades learning...

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How Do We Achieve Fulfillment?

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An extraordinary Life Coach is probably not smarter, richer or more academically accomplished than her clients.

She may not be older, wiser or more worldly than her clients either.

But if she’s really good at supporting them to live a more ...

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One Year Since October 7th: A Reflection

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One year ago, during this week, still shell-shocked from the events of October 7th, I wrote the following article, Have Freakin’ Conviction!

I could have never imagined that over a year later, our brothers, sisters, and children would still ...

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The Parenting Principle We Got Wrong

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The rising generation, also known as Gen Z, has its work cut out for them!

With nearly a decade of experience coaching this generation, I've witnessed their unique traits and behaviors.

First, let me tell you what they are not. They ar...

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