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The more time I spend outdoors, the deeper I fall in love with trees.
Trees are the wisest teachers a human can have.
Trees are everything I aspire to become.
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Trees are patient.
Trees are generous.
Trees don’t question their worthines...
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Today, I want to share a distinction that might not sit well with many of you.
Some of you will resent me for it.
And some of you may change your life because of it.
Even if only one person is moved to make that change because of a deeper ...
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I took up jogging in my early teens—mainly reacting to the “thinness craze” that was the air we breathed in the 70s and 80s. I jogged and took exercise classes at Jane Fonda (does anyone remember those???) to become or stay thin (depending on...
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One of the main goals of powerful coaching is teaching, advising, and supporting our clients to become responsive rather than reactive.
Why is this important?
Well, because most of the problems we face in the day, the problems you and I com...
Would you continue reading this piece if I told you I wouldn’t tell you how to do something better, faster, and more efficiently?
And with that knowledge in mind, would you hire me as your Life Coach?
Would you trust me to help you achieve a more successful career, better relationships, and more l...
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Are you putting a Band-Aid over a bullet hole?
Last week’s blog about Consistency vs. Intensity had clients and readers contacting me with many “how to” questions.
There are two ways to answer “how to” questions:
- Band-Aid How-To andÂ
- Su...
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I have a long-time client who endlessly inspires me.
He is in his seventies, and although I’m his Coach, very often, he’s my teacher.
In the time I’ve been working with him, I’ve seen him transform his marriage from good to extraordinary.
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At a dinner last night with a group of women sharing similar political views, I asked one who was particularly vocal, “When did you become obsessed with your specific political beliefs?”
Silence fell over the small dinner table of six, the a...
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Virginia Woolf wrote, “...for a self that goes on changing is a self that goes on living.”
We all recognize the truth in Woolf’s words, yet we expend incredible energy to resist change! I know people who prefer a certain death to the uncerta...
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My readers and clients know that I’m obsessed with coaching on the level of Identity.
Why?
Because it’s the only kind of change that sticks.
Invest a year in transforming or finetuning your “Identity,” and you will make the remaining years...
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In my last blog I stated that I will be taking some time off to focus on my Identity Evolution.
“What the hell is that?” a few of you asked.
Before we dive into answering your question, let's first agree on how I define “Identity”. It is an...
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I am a Coach who has been writing blogs for this community for years. Recently, I realized that most of my content covers only the basic level of Transformational Coaching.
Powerful coaching happens on three distinct but beautifully integrat...
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Deep and sustainable transformation, the kind that sticks even after we are complete with a coaching program, can only occur through a commitment to regular practice — a fundamental principle of powerful coaching.
If we want to lead a more m...
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In a previous article, Six Phrases that Sabotage Your Self-Worth, I emphasized the narrative that our words create our world.
Words have the power to shape our reality.
Language is not just a way to communicate or interpret; language acts a...
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"How do I make it happen??" was the question I often asked myself as I grew up and well into adulthood.
I was raised to be independent, resourceful, and high-achieving. Bars were not set low in my family. I embraced that perspective and elev...
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One of the foundational practices of Life Coaching is helping our clients understand the distinction between being a victim and having a victim mindset.
So many of us navigate through life with a victim mindset, convinced that external circu...
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I wrote the blog, Have Freakin’ Conviction, a few days after the massacre of my brothers and sisters in Israel. A few days after thirty children in pajamas were snatched from their beds and thrown into the very center of hell.
I appealed to ...
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Professional Coach Rich Litvin advises that those who have embraced coaching as our profession refrain from labeling themselves as "Coaches."
In his article, “Never ever say you’re a Coach,” he explains, “Coaching isn’t a title. It’s a tool....
I was born and partially raised in a country that wants me dead.
I am a Jewish Iranian woman.
The latest barbaric and unprecedented attack on Israeli citizens is simply the latest chapter in the oldest hatred on this planet — the hatred of Jews.
If you believe the old, tired, and stupid argument ...
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How did we live without GPS, cell phones, and text messaging?
Were we constantly lost, out of touch, and in danger?
Life before GPS, cell phones, and text messaging may seem different from today, but it wasn't a constant struggle. We manage...
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I sit in my favorite morning spot on this early fall day, and tears stream down my cheeks.
I have no words for the jumble of emotions that have me so moved by this moment.
Nothing sad, bad, or particularly emotional has happened.
It is the...
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I’m more than a Professional Coach.
I am also a mother, a daughter, and a sister. I cherish profound connections with close friends in the three overlapping circles of my life, trail running, coaching, and well, life.
People confide in me w...
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We often complain about not having enough motivation.Â
“I really want to write the book I’ve been dreaming about, but I’m just not motivated.”Â
“If only… I could motivate myself to make those important business calls.”
So we wait. And wait...
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Yesterday morning, a client of mine, whom I'll refer to as Peter, sent me a lovely text stating the following:
Peter: You’re like the human AI!
Me: Why?
Peter: Because you’ve read every non-fiction book ever written and you have a book rec...